If you want to click the element, then you have use the button tag:
the xpath for the highlighted '+' sign is
(//div[@class="traveler-selector-room-data target-clone-field"]//button[@class="uitk-step-input-button uitk-step-input-plus"] )[1]
you can just change the number to 2, or 3 to get the other two.
Approach i took:
1) Find the parent element which is unique:
Here, the frame is the unique element:

The locator for this frame is :
//div[@class="traveler-selector-room-data target-clone-field"]
2) Now find the unique child element button:
Here, the locator for button was :
//button[@class="uitk-step-input-button uitk-step-input-plus"]
3) Now combine the two
The button element is not direct child of parent element , so i used //
Hence the final locator is :
//div[@class="traveler-selector-room-data target-clone-field"]//button[@class="uitk-step-input-button uitk-step-input-plus"]
But this gives 3 elements, we just need the first one:
So,
We put everything in () and then say we need first element 1
(//div[@class="traveler-selector-room-data target-clone-field"]//button[@class="uitk-step-input-button uitk-step-input-plus"] )[1]